| Location | Widnes |
| Age | 28 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 03/10/1966 |
| Date of Death | 10/10/1994 |
| Visitors | 2,572 since 28/08/2008 |
| Creator |
Everyone knows how special My Dad was.
The Brightest Star In The Sky.
'Shine On You Crazy Diamond'
We all wish you was here Daddy, miss you more than words can possibly describe, You know who your
family are and you certainly know the ones who dont count! and we do too.
we love you with all your hearts,
see you when i get there.
Make sure your there at the gates waiting for us.
Love you
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FOR MY E.
A MILLION TIMES IVE NEEDED YOU
A MILLION TIMES IVE CRIED
IF LOVE ALONE COULD OF SAVED YOU
YOU NEVER WOULD OF DIED.
THE 14TH CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU LAD BUT YOU KNOW WHAT E,IM THE LUCKY ONE. BECKY DIDNT EVEN GET ONE WITH YOU. YOU DIDNT EVEN GET TO HAVE THE FIRST CHRISTMAS WITH YOUR BAMBINO, ITS JUST SO VERY SAD,STILL UPSETS ME. THATS WHY I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT ALL NOW. IF I THINK TOO DEEPLY I CAN'T COPE.
IT SPLIT OUR FAMILY UP WHEN YOU DIED E,HOW COULD WE HAVE OUR BIG CHRISTMAS GET TOGETHER WITHOUT YOU THERE EH. IF YOU WASNT THERE,NONE OF US WANTED TO BE THERE EITHER. WE COULDNT HAVE AN EMPTY SPACE AT THE TABLE COULD WE E. WE ALL DO OUR OWN THING NOW ON CHRISTMAS DAY,ITS EASIER FOR EVERY ONE. DID YOU EVER EVEN KNOW HOW MUCH MY FAMILY ADORED YOU E? YOU COULDNT OF BEEN LOVED MORE LAD,YOU BELONGED WITH US.
JUST WANT TO SAY A MASSIVE THANK YOU TO EVERY ONE WHO HAS GOT ME THIS FAR,YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND YOU ALL GOT ME THROUGH.
ALSO MANY,MANY THANKS TO ELSIE,LYNNE TAYLOR & MARIE-ANGELA FOR ALL THE KIND WORDS TO IAN AND ESPECIALLY THE SUPPORT YOU GIVE TO BECKIE, IT HELPS A LOT.
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE BUT ESPECIALLY TO MY E. WHATEVER YOU DO E,HAVE A LOVELY ONE AND THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SPACE BETWEEN ME AND BECK AT THE TABLE FOR YOU ON CHRISTMAS DAY.
LOVING YOU ALWAYS,FORGETTING YOU NEVER.
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Dear All,
Everyone that reads this message has lost someone very dear to them.
My Son Christopher was in a car accident on his 27th Birthday, and sadly died 2 days later.
He was a very Family orientated young man, with a heart of gold and we all Love & Miss him so much.
My Husband & I have lost our only Son. Our Daughter has lost her Brother; And Our Grandson’s have lost their Uncle.
The Second Christopher Died A Bright Light Went Out In My Heart, And Has Left Me With A Warm Glow Of Memories & Love That I Treasure And Am Very Proud To Own.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for all the tributes, candles, photographs, gifts and kind words they have left on Christopher’s website they mean so much to me & To Wish You All
A Merry Christmas, A Happy New Year, And My Best Wishes For 2009.
My candles will be a bit hit and miss I’m afraid for the next week or so for obvious reasons. Take Care
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
This Tribute Is For This Weekend A Little Longer Than Usual. Sorry It's So Early I've Got A Busy Weekend Ahead
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I will light my candles as usual on Sunday
Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part.
To help us feel we're with them still
And soothe a grieving heart.
Our memories span the years we shared,
Preserving ties that bind.
They build a special bridge of love
And bring us peace of mind.
When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.
If tears could build a stairway,
And memories were a lane,
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again.
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know.
But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more.
To remember all the happy times,
Life still has much in store.
Since you'll never be forgotten,
We pledge to you today:
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you'll always stay.
A million times we've needed you,
A million times we've cried.
If love could have saved you,
You never would have died.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a place
No one will ever fill.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone.
Part of us went with you
The day God took you home.
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYONE
Our Lives changed, the very moment you passed away.
We couldn't stop it; there was nothing we could say.
You've touched our lives so deeply to a point you will never know,
We try to think about you when we are feeling down and low.
Sometimes when our day gets hard we will think about your beautiful smile
And if we listen hard enough we will hear your voice after a while.
It's you who give us a reason to go on with our day,
And now if we want to see you we'll bow our heads and pray.
We catch ourselves looking for you still, in the halls and at the front door,
But when we call your name there is no reply any more!
We never thought a day would come where we would be apart,
God has you in his keepings, we have you in our hearts.
Life will go on, but never will be the same,
Your beautiful smile is gone, but it will always remain.
You're our angel from up above.
You'll always be missed, but most importantly... loved.
Just one more minute, God, is all we ask- why can't you give them back;
It seems like such a simple task. We guess people are right when they say God only takes the best,
We know enough now that you're peacefully at rest.
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You can shed tears that they are gone,
Or you can smile because they lived,
You can close your eyes and pray that they will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that they have left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see them
Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember them and only that they are gone
Or you can cherish the memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what they would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
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I'm writing this from heaven, where I dwell with God above.
Where there's no more tears or sadness, there's just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy because I am out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
And I will stay beside you, every day, week and year
And when you're sad I'll still be there to wipe away your tears.
When you think of my life on earth and all those living years
Because your only human their bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry it does relieve the pain
Remember there wouldn't be flowers unless we first had rain.
I wish I could tell you of all that God has planned
But even if I were able to, you wouldn't understand.
When your going down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps and only half a step behind.
And if you feel a gentle breeze or wind upon your face
Remember it's only me with a loving and soft embrace.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
Ian, Jaki and Beckie
where do I start, this is such a lovely thing you have done Bec for your dad everyone says to you he would be so proud but he will be bursting with pride up in heaven,its so devastating to read your pain and your mums, its took me a week before I have been able to even start typing this. There is so much I want to say and the first thing is I have never stopped thinking of YOU, your mum and Ian, but your mum and me decided that as Andy only had you and your mum as family it was too difficult when things between me and Andy getting divorced where strained, and he was making a new life with someone else and your mum felt loyal to me and it was soo hard for everyone, but letting that contact go was probably one of my biggest regrets in life. You are my boys true blood cousin and you should of been in their life more and them in yours and I hope you keep in touch with them. Your dad and andy did have a rough time with the cards they where dealt, but one thing is for sure and something your dad was so lucky in as he told me on numerous times, was meeting your mum and the lovely family she had your nan and grandad where like his true mum and dad and they embraced him like their son, and your aunties like his sisters, I only started to get close to your dad when Lewis and Danny was born and then really bonded with him when you where born before that he was Andys big brother who used to say Get out me room when I was at his mums ha ha" and what a room an evertonian and liverpudlian blue on one side red on the other. The reason I got to close to your dad you being born we had something in common YOU god everyone adored you honey (and still do), and he would bring you on a Saturday to our house give your mum a break and I swear you can ask your uncle andy I used to say to him look at the frikken smile on your Ians face, its gets bigger everytime he comes up this bludy path. And even though you and your mum and andy kelly and ya nan and grandad where robbed of him and him robbed of you, you must always remember that you made him the happiest he had ever been in his whole life and you where the greatest gift your mum gave him, and that you are here because of him and he would not want you to suffer and be in pain, he would want you to enjoy your life to the full and be happy. Your dad never died because he lives on through you and if it wasn't for you being here your mum would of never got through it. You are a special little girl to alot of people Beckie. And to me I only imagine you as a todler, after 2 boys I was so thrilled to have you and you where soo good as a baby and I love you very very much and I know that love for you, your mum and your dad will never die, I have got many pics of you and I will get them copied and give them to andy for you they are memories of the time I had with you sweet sweet special girl, i could go on forever but the tears won't stop love you big hug and kisses for you and your mum Auntie Michi xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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not long till christmas now dad, mum always comments on here about memories that you and her had together.
it upsets me that i actually dont have any memories with you, i was too young x
i only know whats in my memory of what people have told me.
people say im a credit to you, i dont know what that means but hopefully its a compliment.
i know your still here, with me all the time, looking after me. even if your not, i like to think it anyway.
nan says i need to try and not think about it all as much but i cant, i like thinking about you. even if i do get upset.
nan gave me a picture the other day, i think its ded nice uno. im gonna get it blowed up so its massive and i can put it on my wall with the other one :)!
i had to do some silly speach in school last week about someone dying in your family. i spoke about you.
my teacher said i was very brave, the whole class stayed silent the whole time and i got a few hugs at the end and we had an assembily the next day talking about rememberance day, she told me she was thinking of you.
been talking to our danny about you alot aswell, he gets upset too. feel like i can only talk to him about you because i mention you to my mates and all they say is " awww" and other people just shake there head at me asif to say shutup. ile talk about you as much as i want,i dont need other peoples approval.
mums always telling me how daft you used to act. when you thought you was ard dying your hair and it went green! typical ay.
gonna have to go, me mums gunna be moaning coz ive got school tomorrow you know what shes like!
haha no i love her loads dad.
miss you daddy ile see you on christmas eve!, take care, just felt like a little chat because....
its just nice.
i love you
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PEACE and HAPPINESS
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___________________Hello
__________________I Have
_________________Come Here
________________To Wish You
_______________Merry Christmas
______________And Also A Happy
_____________New Year To You For
____________2009... I Hope The New
___________Year Brings You Loads Of
__________Happiness And Loads Of Fun.
_________I Hope You Have A Nice Day On
________Christmas Day Filled With Lots Of
_______Angel Time......And Of Course Eating
______Lots Of Nice Foods, And Candies. I Hope
_____That Santa Is Good To You As Well And He
___Brings You Loads Of Presents On Christmas Day
__Most Of All, I Hope He Brings Peace To Your Hearts
HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO JAKI and BECKIE
all them years ago.
iya E,
just sat here thinking about how things have ended up.when we were teenagers,we were so happy. Couldnt wait to get our own place and settle down together. Before all that happened,you had a really rough life for a while. It wasnt your fault hun. You always said you had no family till you met mine.
I cried for you so many times in them days lad,you never had it easy,had to fight for every thing.
In the end you left your past behind you and we started our life together,away from the old hassles. We were soooo good E.
When we got pregnant you was so proud of my bump, then Beckie came and you was hooked. You absolutely adored her.I never got a look in. Life was okay.
6 months later,on your 28th birthday,you and Andy talked about your childhood,it was so,so sad but you were both happy then,youd both got new familys who loved you what ever.I went to bed sad that night after being told things that i never knew.
4nights later we were sad again,when you had that crash. You were on your way home for gods sake,5 minutes away.We were so devastated E. I had to leave our home hun,couldnt cope.Didnt cope having beckie cos she was only a baby. She ended up with a whole load of mums in the end. Everyone became her mum.
Why E,why when you was finally happy within our very own family did you have to die. Such a sad,sad life and then it ends when it gets good.
I hope your lifes good now lad,i hope youre happy.
Thank you for Beckie,my reason for living.
LOVING YOU ALWAYS,FORGETTING YOU NEVER.XXXXXXXXXXXXX
all them years ago.
KELLIE WILL KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT HERE.
"I LIKE DRIVING IN MY CAR,ITS NOT QUITE A JAGUAR"
OH MY GOD,DID WE EVER STOP LAUGHING IN THEM DAYS.
SO MANY HAPPY MEMORIES E, THANK YOU.
YOU SOOO USED TO CRACK ME UP LAD.
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